My Life as a false home is marked by rhythms such as precise definition, but crooked as a consummation of the definition. I define myself as "false" home simply because I do not pay the annual insurance on clinging to the fact "but as I worked ... a little '." Actually I have not yet understood from what we deduce that a person, man or woman may be called "home." Already the word is I hate it on principle. HOUSEWIFE ... I hate this literary connection, it is a similarity, you do not agree? Housewife (AUSUAIF bed), the corresponding English, sounds much better. Only that it is applicable only to women, containing "housewife," the word "wife", his wife. I do not think there is "househusband" for the man (husband = husband). From here it follows once more pragmatic Anglo-Saxon like this: the woman is a woman and is home to bring up the family, as it has been since the time of our ancestors and beyond side of the Vallum Adriani. Sure, I read that the woman at the barbarians had some prerogative more than the women in Roman society, where it was considered to be the object of her husband and amen. The warriors ancient inhabitants of Ireland, the Celts were devoted to homosexual practices. To them it was normal and indeed, if a man made a pass at another boy and that there was, the first could be offended in his honor ... bad thing because it was easy to grab a sharp iron and use it as you can think of worse . In short, the woman discovered that her man went to men, had every right to "divorce" and change man.
This is what I've read on a fantastic site run by a French-seems-who has done thorough research on various topics including "sweathouses" sweat rooms. In practice, the ancestors of our saunas. Small caves dug in the countryside, in isolated places, often near a river, where people until not long ago went to purify himself. A mix between a hut and a cave on a human scale. It stokes the fire, you get naked, you are until you can, you quit running away in the river and you're done. A little 'S & M but highly effective.
Here is the link where you can admire beautiful pictures of Ireland with accurate maps of the places where you can find the symbolic sweathouses and stones of various kinds really fascinating: http://www.irishmegaliths.org.uk/sweathouses.htm
Coming back to the home of ... where was I?? Ah, but who's home? Who are the / this? WHAT is a housewife? We are all a little 'home here and not raining. If you do not want our houses are turned into stables we have to work at a pace of cleaning and reorganizing personal and responsive to our way of living. We have to cook if we want to eat, we have to do the shopping, etcetera, etcetera. Once she was destined to be a housewife, few workers (especially in the countryside). I'm not a sociologist, so take everything with me the benefit of inventory ... I base on the paintings of macchiaioli (by the way, the exhibition of Silvestro Lega in Forlì truly deserves, even if the ticket is a drain) and tell my father to say what I write. In short, the work of women was that of housewife, I assure you, today is not an easy job then you need and how to balance time, needs and budgets. But by the time she accepted her role of housewife and mother. Everyone knew what was their role at birth, there was no need. If there were, we are resigned to the idea of \u200b\u200bnot being able to easily satisfy them. The rich man was rich and lived-rich-do not add much, the poor were poor farmers or whether it was that it was craftsman ... el'artigiano the farmer would have done so for life and her children ... no one asked why there was no need to do anything else. No one thought not to continue the work or father to leave home, except for boys sent to war. The main aim was to pull a living. Sure, there have been exceptions, but exceptions are called, right? My father for most of his life he lived in the same way his father had lived as his father. And 'the last war that started the "vault" as I call it, especially since the advent of television. Derivatives (PC, mobile phones, etc ...) then did the rest and the side effects on Our companies are known to us. So now she can not do for a living as a half-century ago. He has to work. Unless "you do not keep", a term now regarded as a disgrace. You immediately think of what "could never do that woman to the man in bed" to be maintained. Nobody says it but that's what they think in a lot. Well, I believe it is not a disgrace to keep on being a man. It is not shameful. Unfortunately today, the circumstances due to unemployment, insecurity also lead many men to be maintained by women or parents. So it must be accepted. The bad thing is clear that each of us needs a nest egg of their own money to spend on if necessary. I was raised with a feminist culture such as "studies that then you find a good job, you're free and do not you put your feet on the neck." The basic concept is valid, but is no longer certified because my mother reasoned with the head of his time. Now you can understand my disappointment when I got slammed with the world today and particularly with the employment market. I found that for women has not changed much and that the shaking is the double. In short, being a woman is leaving a big rip-off that we must accept and amen. Some people do not think about these things and accept it better than others that share my thoughts.
But then I am a housewife? What is a housewife? Who's home? This is a person like me who lives at home and 90 percent for the remainder of the year 20percento "sew"? Or is that not even a "sew"? Probably there is a legal definition on and I still do not have bothered to read it. One of the aberrant consequences of my legal studies was to remove me by law. I came to the conclusion that our present system of Law degree is not required. Yes, it is totally unnecessary given the amount of laws, decrees, statutes, drawings, paintings, existing projects in Italy. Started cutting all that bad as they do in Pappardella Germany regularly, then reformed the order of the studies, let's make it more pragmatic and talk about it.
I understand the frustration of building a student of mathematics. Math is infinite, never come down, has branched, offers many ideas and then you can say "that sucks." But the law ... gosh, yes, it will shape society's needs over time, but eventually the basic subjects, the areas of interpersonal relations are those that focus on family and property, the "cursed property" under Article 832 of the Civil Code, the only one I still remember, "the right to enjoy and What's so full and exclusive. " To read it, perhaps aloud, we feel in control of the world, emperors. But is this right that leave all the mess (after all even those families touched on this subject) and that this elite of lawyers and notaries draw their daily bread or pizza.
Now to my own pace as a housewife, as anticipated in the intro.
I speak of course of a day that has no firm commitments, almost any one day.
I try to wake up early in the morning and if I can do it the night before I go to bed before 22:30, the time when my eyelids start to close. For soon I mean before 8.00. After this time, I consider myself a pelandrona, one who wakes up late and in my head the day is past not to mention wasted. It is a tragedy that I do if I wake up late, but annoys me greatly.
You say: "But Sofia, the 8:00 is not late, you have the luck that you do not have to go to work and you sleep more accidents ... -. And 'I live with the famous saying of the morning and I can assure you that is true. The times I've done the opposite, I only got the blows. The nights I was on the books at the time of European Community law. The name of the examination reveals an ancestral discipline now, but the long title that corresponded to the heaviness of the examination, however, was for me a lot interesting. At that time I believed in my ability and the ability to create a society in harmony with itself and with other nations. There were several sentences to remember including the famous "Simmenthal case, so the canned meat, you read that right. Cabbage that night! Study and study until dawn. Then dormitone and again below. But why should I pay that effort?? I do not repay me for sure, given my current living situation. Indeed, the tragedy is that as I paid all the taxes to do it. I arrived the morning of the examination that I slept standing up and there were no chairs in the halls of Palazzo Malvezzi, home of my faculty. Then maybe moved my test in the afternoon: Happiness! AAARGH! The building of our faculty was a scandal in regard to the admission of aspiring lawyers. In winter the open waiting outside on the porch of the inner court that called you in where we finally start to sweat and not just the sudden warmth of the classroom. In summer there was saved, but, as anticipated, there were enough places to sit. Not that you could take all the steps because he did not feel as if you were called inside. The Alma Mater has more than nine centuries of life and shows them all one has to say.
Then I wake up, have breakfast, more or less abundant (depending on cycle) As I look Raitre. And not because I am of a certain political party. Over the years the TG5 and co. I was disgusted. They are noisy and contain too many ads. Raitre up at 9.00, now they begin the historical documentaries, is really relaxing. They try to copy the CNN, but they can not and fortune. In general debate the situations in countries such as China, the Middle East and other states is not talked about often calling guests and cultured in various studies. The other day there was even Mussolini and I must say that he spoke really well and I made a good impression. Usually when I see any of our politicians change the channel. You know, when I think that our taxes pay their salaries mega me just want to make a coup, or to found one of my very own party, "party rock" I'm sure many would gather followers. That of "common sense" would certainly be snubbed. Now common sense is RIP. After
pornstar, trans, mobsters, hustlers, and the various defendants of robbery in Rome believe that anyone can sit on one of those seats. Who was that emperor Roman senator who was elected to his horse?? Sorry maybe I missed memories, maybe correct me.
When I run I look in the historical documentary at 9.00. Maybe in the meantime I go clean the washing machine and a little 'house. If you do not watch the documentary things at home do the best course and focus more while tidying the bed. Maybe I find my own scattered here and there. I'm stuffed and I did not just those, a mini zoo that gratifies me with mental journeys worthy of the imagination of a child of the seventies (now playing with the other screen, no comment!).
Then I choose to listen to a disc to load a bit '. It depends on the moon. I can easily switch from Classical to Bluegrass and Punk / Metal without too much trouble. I have some records I just heard and sometimes pick out the old tapes. However, since my mother died it is unlikely that the slow pace of the plays or sad songs. For example, Vasco is sad for me. Do not ask me why, makes me very sad, and then do not listen.
At midday we have to see what to do. If I go grocery shopping, paying bills, cleaning the stairs of the apartment building, sending letters and parcels to my correspondents and go to other places. The flea market is one of my favorite commercials is that I go to that lead and see to find. Lately I have devoted much time to clean up, or rather the reorganization of the house. This is an important task that falls to the home even if the man is called to give manforte. Unfortunately most of the time is deaf.
I do not know about the others, but we put so much time and energy into this job that I destroy. I think there are people who do not never cleaned and are dedicated to living with a messy house. I have three bedrooms and bathroom. If I put something in the house I have a mind to throw away 'the other. The attic which I use as storage assure you that it is one nice excuse to use. If I stuff up all winter, then see how much stuff I will have to be reorganized over in the spring, only time you can stay in the attic without die from cold or hot. Eh, eh, I also have my personal sweathouse; that cunt, eh?
If you do not have to pay a visit to Forlì lunch with my father at home. Anyone who knows me knows that I do not like to cook, but other qualities required of a home. I have never initiated the culture of the chef and is not my fault. When I asked my mother to help her cook she said "studies which is better and there's always time to learn to cook" not true! It's not that we've ever tried, but really, I should always have someone to support me in this business for potermici challenge themselves. In fact, Mark's Kitchen better than me. Then I let him. In general, my dishes are the fried, the pasta with and without the tomatoes, grilled meat, rice with parmesan crust, things in cans, frozen vegetables, boiled potatoes. I would say that is enough to survive. A couple of times I made cookies, but I had the right stimulus. I jumped out the good and bad but all in the shape of doggie. When I do not want stegamare eat in one of the shacks around the park close to home. Very comfortable and I take this opportunity to read some newspapers and possibly scrub my specialty is a take me home every now and magazines from places of public parking. It makes me feel very well, like a kleptomaniac. The drama of these women's magazines or the male-cultural nowadays is that there are more magazines, encyclopedias and I am not referring only to the weight-brick created by advertising. Within touching so many topics that sometimes makes me think of why continue to print books. I might as well just stencil magazine-worthy items from sexuality to the history-so Who does not like reading, read by force given the variety of topics. At least it is more invogliato.Un little 'how to do crosswords a week but with less attention. Every so often I like to complete some puzzles, but I prefer puzzles and hobbies "fill in the spaces with dots." Otherwise, if I buy a magazine or pychologies or Astrella (contains interesting illustrations to make mailart well as articles on customs and legends).
My father is ok as a cook. Use the method of "what you put there are," but it's ok and I must say that in some things even outperforms Liviana, his little woman. His specialty is cream. Hell, with pudding so nobody makes them: a non-baker. After lunch I usually
the penichella-life for me! - Then coffee to digest followed by the resumption of activities that include my writing and art post. Sure, maybe sometimes I do not do anything or everything I do at different times. Maybe I'm going to make the sexual gymnastics (exercises are specific to women, do not think bad, although it would not be so bad), always listening to music. A Forlì instead or I meet with the Silvana, the first wife of my father or someone else to chat. Or do I walk around the shops or the Committee to Fight Hunger in the world, the "Mecca of cercalibri. Lately I've found a book on astrology was very good that year does it cost 45 thousand dollars. A bargain since I gave it only 5 €. Here in Faenza I still have not discovered all the places of props. Even for these activities should be a time I do not always possess.
I would love to spend as much time in the library. The problem is that I lose myself in the Bible because there is too much, too much stuff including books, computers, CDs, DVDs, etc ... Then I evokes memories university. A nightmare from which I want to escape.
Now, with fine weather what is a housewife Sofia, before they face at night? Sure, go to the countryside to enjoy the sun. Or go on the local hills of Castel Raniero or go to the nearby baseball field. Oretta enough for me, just enough for my physical resume the damp winter. Tuesday, May 9, 2007 I went to sea in Cervia for several hours and I did even a bath: history! I tried this skimboard board that was attached to the wall for years, just for the sake of seeing how it goes. Well, if it is helpful to ride the wave that we are absent, at least it was useful as a backrest on the beach. These are the days when the sea is better. Zero tourists, zero stress. In the evening, the housewife
Sofia should generally be in a boxing gym at the Palace Bubani. But with the summer for me is harder to endure the heat of the gym so I dedicate myself to mountain biking and swimming and possibly the morning run. Recently at the fair traders for a day "held in Forli, I bought a new punching bag to fill. Just hang in the basement will be ready for the occasional outburst of summer kicks and punches. This year I attended a short course of self-defense for women Castelbolognese. It took place on Saturday and it was free. Based on the techniques of Kung Fu I think it is very effective in defense, but we then see in real life. The nice thing was the final part includes relaxation techniques. The course will resume in October.
I love to go mountain biking or running in the country. In winter I can even get to the field of cross-Monti Coral will be 6 miles from home. Listen to all the noises of nature makes me feel fine, but mp3 player! The snake you cross the street, hoopoe flying high, the lizards, blackbirds, butterflies that accompany you ... and the wild boar. Yes, I had a close encounter with a wild boar the other day as I ran in Castel Raniero. I took a shot to see this huge mass of black hair that I looked menacing with his fangs and bulging eyes blacks. Fortunately, he pulled ahead and I came upon him: I was shaking like a leaf! Now I understand that there must be a taste to hunt these wild pigs. In the evening, the housewife Sofia
what it does? As it is not single, not in front of a ruined tank chat for hours. Or watching a movie while dining, then read in bed. That post also makes art reading then bed. No job is too difficult to go out at night. Exit costs such as hobbies and sports. It 'clear that if I choose hobbies and sports have to cut somewhere else. But I imagine that this thought is not common to many. Or is it more common than I think, but people do not care then and do not put it into practice? I read that there are many people in debt up to his neck due to the accumulation of various mortgages: crazy! And 'the drama of cash and bank payments through RID. It seems not to spend but you spend. My mother never asked the ATM. Retreated a bit 'spillatico of each month in the bank and that was enough. So is able to save. I wonder if today we succeed.
Last week I allowed myself to go to a concert by Bonnie Prince Billy to our historic theater Masini. How do I know this character? Thanks to my French friend of course, the great Cath. It 's you update me on the artists' good' of the moment. To do this, France has a higher gear. The ten euro entry were fair and the atmosphere very intimate. Bonnie is that his young drummer from the air more gay bohemians have drained a bottle of red wine per head on stage. I would see them playing together at Vinicio Capossela. I went alone because Mark would not hold this kind of music. The slow pace does not do it for him. On the other hand has led me to Spiderman 3, in my opinion the best of three series. Some films are just a big screen, no doubt. As Harry Potter, Pirates of the Caribbean and other stories of natural disasters. There are many special effects and the fictions that would make it wise not to engage the players and replacing them with designs that are already in the PC. Presages a future where robotic-far-I hope the film actor's job no longer exists and the actors are relegated to outlaw coffee or members of secret societies, because they still lack of ignorance. Sofia
Nostradamus has spoken.
Another luxury that I have given is to visit the exhibitions and Domenico Felice Casorati Ballardini the MAR in Ravenna. Both I really liked, especially that of Ballardini, because I prefer the light and shade and drawings in pencil and charcoal. Moreover, the plasticity and sculpture are the artistic expressions that I love most of all. What bad luck though. The two artists were born in the same period in the late nineteenth century, but the second is experienced very little, only 25 years old and full of debt and cuckold. Yet so talented that even today casts for pottery made by him are used by craft workshops. They also made a film about his life, "The seed of the pomegranate." I failed to go see it, but I will next time.
So in the end, luxury luxury here and there too I live in my little luxury. Sometimes I feel guilty but then I wonder - what would I do otherwise? -. It 'always be right in front of the PC to write long letters or comforting?
Two weeks ago, Mark took me to La Verna, the mountain in the province of Arezzo, where St. Francis is said to have received the stigmata. At the time was to be a great place peacefully. Now tourists ruin the aura that the site should convey. Should limit the number of visitors to X number per day. Beautiful woods and forests worth of long walks in the cool.
Other films that I recommend are:
Zucker, becoming a jew in seven days. Good Bye Lenin
The Lives of Others. All
German film, highly enjoyable. The first comic, the tragic and also is the second cd. "Ostalgie", nostalgia-East refers to the DDR. The third is a story that encompasses passion, love, death, betrayal and ideals and is considered a historical document. Exceptional actors, those who speak without speaking to speak.
The time and go sit where they want them. You can not control.
I heard it on MTV.
If you spit in the sky then falls on his face. From
Zucker film.
The elephant man naked - cute, but you can breathe with that? - From the movie A Prairie
Well, now I greet you all a nice summer
Sofia please drop me
10/05/2007
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